Let me put the Christians minds to rest. Gay people are not out to destroy marriage or the family. As a husband and a father gay people will never be a threat to my marriage. or yours. Only straight people can destroy their marrige. Children do not define marrige. I have two marriages in my family who never wanted children. That does not make their marrige any less valid. I was married for 3 years before the birth of my son. belive me my marrige was every bit as fullfilling then as it is now. I just wonder how much socitey benifits from 3rd & 4th marriages. Usally those people are only iterested in their own happiness Funny how communistic conservatives get about marrige when they reject social welfare on just about every other issue.