Same sex marriage is not "redefining marriage" any more than allowing blacks and women to vote was "redefining voting rights " Gay people are "lionized ". Wrong ! Homophobic bigotry is rampant in America , evne more so than racosm was about 50 or 60 years ago .
Bigotry against gay people is no better than white bigotry against blacks . DOMA is nothing but asmokescreen for the anti-gay agenda of the right in America. Marriage does not need to be "defended". It's the rights of gay Americans which must be defended !