Most of your "females have done this and that" have nothing to do with ground combat. Being attacked and defending one's self is not the same thing as conducting combat operations day after day.
In virtually every historical example that you can come up with, women have only been pressed into full combat roles when it was absolutely necessary and as a last resort for national survival. As soon as possible they get removed from those roles. The Israelis do not use women in front-line infantry units.
The Russians have still not recovered from the massive loss of females due to the Russian Revolution and WWII.