I disagree. Many women "charge" men for certain priviledges. In many instances the first bullet on the list of what constitutes a "good man" is 1. How much money does he make and what kind of job security does he have. Then once the CRITERIA are met is the push to "get married and make it legal". I lost count over the years of the number of times I have heard statements like "I slept with him therefore I deserve it. It being the payoff through divorce. I have also witnessed women planning their marriages, calculating how many kids they anticipate having and how much they would get in child support three four or five years down the road in divorce. Everything in this country has become about "the pay off"