"...it is her that is getting operated on."
Irrelevent. She spends 9 months pregnant - the man spends 18 years paying child support. Both deserve an equal say in all the consequences of their actions.
"All of this goes to show that even with Abortion available, the Man cannot count on consequence-free sex."
Sex isn't designed to be consequence free - the problem is that you imbeciles think women should be excused from the consequences while men should be held to them.