Of course leadership is not sexual--but heterosexual people who are leaders never seem to take pains to hide the fact that they are heterosexual; for instance, they proudly trot out their opposite-sex spouses. I long for a day when a celebrity, politician, business leader, etc., can proudly trot out his/her same-sex spouse and it will be treated as routine. This day will come, however, only if high-profile gay people come out. By which I mean: Just say, I'm gay, here's my spouse, my partner, whatever. Preemptive strike against anyone equating coming out with sharing intimate details of one's sex life.