That's the thing. No one, other than the clowns in the fever swamps, think that Libya is nefarious. Everything knows this is just how things work in the real world. Screw-ups and snafus occur, people die, it is heartbreaking, and hopefully you learn.
Here is your problem: no one thinks you losers can do it any better. We lived through Bush/Cheney. When it comes to strategic policy, everyone knows the Republicans do not know their backside from a hole in the ground. So Obama and company has quite a bit of latitude. His way seems intelligent. Does not bat 1.000, but that is alright by most Americans.
And when you whine about it ad nauseum, it sounds like just more certitudes that don't mean jack.