I just don't understand why some people are so hung up on this. Why is this a source of angst for people? It's like your whole identity is wrapped up in phony behavioral displays that aren't even productive. Teach your girl to mow a lawn and shoot a rifle for crying out loud. Do you want her to end up selling sex or being in a money-based sexual relationship because she is too incompetent to do anything? Or in constant danger of being fired for incompetence if she does get a job? Teach her how to handle physical reality.
If you're so concerned about your daughter getting drafted, then oppose the draft. That is what you should be doing as a Tea Partier anyway. You can't argue for free markets, then turn around and advocate people-as-slaves.