I learned to cuss, drink, play poker with the guys, and do everything the men did. I made as much money as they did and lived a pretty free lifestyle. I had retired military men work under me, who took orders from me. Then one day, it all crashed and I turned to God. He began to show me what being a woman really means. For the last twenty five years, I've been learning. I am so much kinder, compassionate, nuturing and feel the dignity and honor afforded me as a woman. I've been on both sides of ths fence and will tell you being in my natural role as God intended, a true Proverbs 31 woman is far superior to the so called liberated role I first adopted in my life.