Katie, you missed highlighting this line: "...when I fell into a bad situation..."
Excuse me, but how does a man FALL into pregnancy??? Biologically, it is impossible. Even now, all these years later, he can't take responsibility for his youthful irresponsibility when he had sex with a woman he didn't want to be the mother of his children.
He was a selfish man who used a young woman for sex and then killed the logical outcome of his actions. And the fact he still can't admit to what he did then shows us he's now just an older version of the same selfish guy.