"We", is rhetorical for "society", not you personally. If you were raised Catholic, you are by definition not secular, unless of course you have renounced your faith. I too was schooled by nuns in the '50's. My morality comes from belief in God and Christian values. I haven't the ability to rationalize morality based on limited values which most secularism does. Would you care to deny, based on the argument here on abortion, that many in today's society base their moral relativism in secularism? Perhaps you need to read more carefully.