Yes to women in combat, IF:
1. They make the grade physically and mentally
2. They do not get to pick their specialty, just like men don't
3. They cannot use pregnancy to get out of or shorten deployments or combat zone assignments. If a man can't shirk his duties because his wife is expecting, a woman should not either. It's called the pill.
By the way, the military has the best equal pay for equal work program... This should not set the military back.