DCM: I have heard this argument several times and what you say is true in many ways. However, I seriously question the “choice” theory. I was always attracted to girls from the onset of my sexuality and have never been attracted to other men. I simply don’t see how I could choose to find a man sexually attractive. How is that possible? I see women every day that I find attractive and I don’t see how I chose that either. Can you change your sexuality at will?