Yes, you do traitorbill. Because these are aspects of life that are essential to another individual's well being, different from YOU.
And has nothing to do with YOUR individual well being.
A person who is gay, that is their orientation. The same way hetero is yours. You're going to be such whether sexually active or not. This is not a matter of choice, and your orientation doesn't infringe or shouldn't and a gay person's doesn't infringe on YOURS.
Contraception and abortion are sometimes necessary to individual well being, not YOUR own.
And must be accessible to whoever needs or chooses it.
Your religion however is always a choice, and cannot be enforced, nor required, nor is it, by the gov't.