You know, the problem with liberals is they really don't understand the sovereignty of parents. It is none of your business how parents raise their kids. If my brother called me a moron and accused me of the things you accuse yours of, he would not have a place in my kids' lives. As a parent, it is my responsibility to protect them from toxic people like you.
Maybe you need to see a shrink. If you think about it all the time, it sounds like OCD to me. Or maybe you could just spend some time on the shooting range and get over your phobia.