And Reason sure hasn't had the best track record in terms of steering us well, yet we would be hard-pressed to say that we should never trust it. Likewise with the heart, which can be truer than Reason, as well as misguided at times. We are complex creatures, and one-size, one answer, one way simply doesn't apply very well. That is not "moral relativism," but an acknowledgment that discernment is our challenge ~ to bring about genuine mindfulness to all that we can. Failure is a fact of life, too, but all we can really do is the best we can, and God doesn't expect us to be perfect does He?