I am a 56-year old, thrice-divorced female in an intimate relationship with a 58-year-old, widowed man with whom I recently became reacquainted after a 41-year hiatus. We briefly knew each other in high school. My Protestant denomination will not bless a marriage between us because I basically got it wrong three times in the past. In addition to that, the estate laws of our state and country would strip him of a sizable inheritance from his deceased wife in the event that he remarries, which I can't see serves much benefit for anyone except the institutions that currently pay him. I am beyond child-bearing age, so our intimacy has no real biological purpose.