All I can say is, my faith in God is strong. And Jesus said He would never leave me. That does not mean I will not feel pain, disappointment, anger, or a myriad of other emotions. I am a mere mortal, after all. And, no, the people around me after my son's death did nothing to ease my pain, though I appreciated their support. Grief is a process and must be allowed to run its course. They helped most by letting me work through my grief the way I needed to, but helping when I asked. We do not have our son, but his death, in some ways has been a blessing. My husband underwent a radical change, and this was a good thing. I will not go into details. I am now happy, because I have been promised that I will see my son again. Hope this helps you.