No, I don't give up trying to figure it out, and I certainly don't say both sides are wrong in their fundamental beliefs. I just know too many on both sides, devoutly religious or aggressively, defiantly atheist, who are positive that they are right, and everyone else is both wrong, delusional and irrational. I see no evidence that convinces me that either side's position is supported by logic. Both boil down to belief. So I say I don't know.