"I think the lack of family, community and church life is at the core of what is ruining our nation, but it's also the key to our renewal. Just as my story begins with my family, America's renewal begins with overcoming the obstacles that divide and dissolve our homes." Wilma Norris Knight
We need to get back to thinking of others and not ourselves. When we help others we in turn are helping ourselves. There might be 1 out of 10 that you helped that will not help you when you need it, but the other 9 will more than make up for it. And that one, they will learn one way or another, if they help no one, then eventually no one will help them when they most need it.