I think you are being selective in your argument. "First, our society devalues intellect, character, and basically every other value with positive connotation when it comes to women."
Come on, just women? Look at sitcoms (I actually don't watch any, but am familiar with some). The typical scenario is the stupid, pathetic husband matched with a smart, savvy woman. This would be the case with "World According to Jim" to "Everybody Loves Raymond" to dozens other. But really, wt, I think you should lighten up a bit.