Unfortunately, we now have a culture that punishes the successful, encouraging both men and women to be dependent on the government. We now have a culture where it is extremely risk for a man to be a teacher, coach, or mentor to youth, lest he be accused to being a molester. (Yes, molesters should be severely punished, but we should not assume all men are molesters.) We now have a culture that punishes men for being husbands. We now have a culture that punishes men for being fathers. We now have a culture that punishes boys for being boys, and for becoming men. It is much more appealing, and supported, for boys to stay boys, to not contribute, to stay dependent, and shun marriage and fatherhood for casual sex.