the trouble with this discussion is you let the dam democrats invent the language.
There is no such thing as a "neocon", these people infesting the Republican Party were Reagan Democrats, and without Reagan, they're Just Democrats. Once you understand who is running the party, it's instantly clear why they behave the way they do, and what you have to do about it.
(replace them, is the answer- not third party. You can not overcome the sheer numbers of voters who are going to vote party and who are going to remain ignorant, they do not even know there is a problem)