loving and hugging your children more is good BUT lets get the gov. and courts back to where we can teach them the three r's -- Responsibility, Respect and Religion. I don't mean beat them but a paddeling and maybe washing their mouths out with soap. you can't teach children right from wrong unless we get the right to make them know the difference. it sure didn;t hurt me none from a beating and that was with a leather belt and i learned the three R's in a very short time. And i love my dad and mom more for teaching me right from wrong.