One of the many frequently-denied/overlooked issues with "gay marriage" is that it won't be enough for homosexuals. Not being "normal," or considered "normal," is painful for anyone. "Gay marriage" is just one of many ways of trying to gain a "normal" stamp from society. The problem is that societal endorsement won't do anything to fix the inner issue. They will always be looking for the next thing to try to fix it, but nothing outside will.