Considering that I have a genetic disease that use to be a very, very, I mean really horrible way to die (like many still are) before Nobel Prize winning research found fairly effective treatment... If my mother had a miscarriage (I was much wanted), I wouldn't have cared, would have I? Life is interesting and I'm glad to be alive, but...never having been born would spared me a lot of problems. If God is my creator. my intelligent designer... where can I file a law suit? Having worked as an intelligent designer myself, had I had ever screwed up that badly, I'd deservedly be sued for everything I have.
We really can't depend upon people who speak for God, as Mr. Barber does, to tell us what to do when it comes to difficult decisions.