Old fuddy-duddy chiming in. Yeah, I can get the horn-dog on with the best of them, but just keep it in your pants and save it for the wife. It can be done.
And ELViking, I was you once. You are here not to rebutt but in search, although you may say otherwise. I totally get where you're coming from. I scoffed and "put up" with people that tried to help me. Through your own efforts or mine nothing will change. I think we can agree to that. But there is something irresistable that I hope comes into your life that will soften your heart so you will see.