Sorry....Phobia refers to an irrational fear. Someone can believe that the homosexual lifestyle is wrong without being afraid of homosexuals. The gay community labels anyone who doesn't support their lifestyle as homophobic and that's a completely inaccurate use of the term. I don't hate gays. I'm certainly not afraid of gays. I just believe that your lifestyle is sinful and unnatural. That does not mean that I think it's okay for someone to physically harm you because of your sexual orientation, nor does it mean that I think you should be shunned from society. God gave us free will.