When my daughter was 12 she said "you can't MAKE me". Instead the the typical reaction of "wanna bet?" I said, you are absolutely right. I can't MAKE you do anything. On the other hand YOU can't make ME do anything either. You can't make me drive you to the movie, you can't make me buy you that sweater you want, you can't make me go pick up your friends and let them spend the night. You can't MAKE me do anything. So 6 more years here. Going to be livable or going to be hel. Your choice.
She was a good kid and we had(and still do have) a great relationship. I never heard you can't MAKE me again.