I think it is her choice. This does not mean to wait too late to safely abort or to act with no responsibilty but it is not your place to dictate her choice. It is the woman's decision as to whether the growing fetus is more dangerous or painful to her than aborting it. It does not mean you should pay for the abortion or that a doctor must perform it. You also have rights. Don't confuse the issues or dictate whether the woman is one who will regret the abortion or be grateful for it. It is a difficult individual decision.