This leaves us with several choices.
1) Abolish marriage as a governmental institution, instead allowing any couple, hetero or same-sex, to get a civil union. 'Marriage' will be left up to individual churches, who can marry who they see fit.
2) Abolish all federal and state tax benefits (among others, such as health decisions) for married couples.
3) Allow homosexual marriage (the legal term) and leave church marriage up to individual religions.
So what do we choose?