"Are blacks, who consistently score higher than whites on self-esteem tests, racist against themselves?"
The right question is,
"Are a majority of blacks (and white liberals) using racial demagogery, based on no facts, to smear white politicians with the accusation of being a hater of blacks, who would push legislation to remove freedom, and perhaps re-enslave, from black Americans?"
So what should be the response?
This is harsh, but the response to an unfounded accusation of being a hater should be the same response to an unfounded accusation of being a pedophile, or of you wife being a wh*re: total ostracision of the speaker, leaving the forum in which it was said, or a challenge to hand to hand combat.