But why would you want to encourage them to marry someone of the opposite sex? Would you want your daughter to be the unwitting spouse of a mostly-gay man who is marrying just to please you and the religious community?
There's too much of that already. In case you are clueless, here's something to think about: Those men haunting the bathrooms and rest stops are not the out, proud homosexuals who want the freedom to marry. They are closeted, married men -- like foot-tapping Senator Larry Craig and the Reverend Ted Haggard -- who carry on a secret gay life while deceiving their wives.
It is not healthy, and you shouldn't be encouraging them to marry women.