they can't find employment.
We see a looming debt crisis that will affect every single US citizen.
We see a culture that increasingly devalues life AND liberty.
We see businesses that want to hire and expand burdened by reams of legislation....
We are smart enough to realize that an act of consensual sex MIGHT create a child. Therefore we make DAMN sure that we get to know a man first, marry him and THEN had sex. If we got impatient and slipped up then we rearrange our lives to accommodate the coming child and our changing responsibilities. If we realize that we would be incompatible in a marriage, then we place our child for adoption so that he can have the benefits of having TWO involved parents.