An abortion is never a decision between a woman and her "doctor.' She only meets the abortionist when he/she enters the room to take the child's life. And then the abortionist leaves the room. The woman has had no previous relationship with the abortionist, and she will not have a relationship with this person after the committing of the abortion.
Real relationships between women and their doctors are ongoing and based upon the woman's health and wellness needs and illnesses or injuries. They involve checkups, examinations and discussions about ongoing health and wellness concerns.
A woman has no more relationship, or decision-making process, with an abortionist than she does with a colonoscopist.