As for as these "debates" to call them as such stretches the imagination. In my high school years as a member of a debate (6 students) team we debated Socialized medicine. This was 1950. My team took the CON side. End results? We won. At that time no one believed that government should be a consideration to governing your personal health.
As for wearing your Romney-Ryan T shirt, I am sure you have read or seen the story of the 80 year old bus driver telling a 12 year old he should have been aborted because his parents were Romney supporters.