In todays social and economic enviroment, finding a good man who can and is willing to support a woman and children is increasingly difficult. The divorce rate is 50% in some areas. Women pursue career and dating in an effort to secure financial stability in which to have and raise children and dating is the route to the hope of finding a compatiable mate for the long haul. So, what part of this do you not understand? Infertility often does not just :show up" later in life; for many, infertility begins in the teens.
Being a mother is hard work and often older women are more apt to do the hard work of mothering. Give these women some credit; women are more than just baby makers. They are breadwinners, family members, etc.