Some, perhaps most, Muslims hate everyone, including themselves, each other; it’s just that someone has to be hated more than others and that honor is reserved for us and Israel. It doesn't matter what we do. Even being less visible and poorer won't help because if we look weaker we also look more vulnerable and easier to attack without retribution. The more we are attacked without some kind of retribution to the specific individuals who attack us, the more we will be targeted.