No state ever organized any dances where I went to school., Are you a parent of a child in public school? If not, you have no idea what you are talking about.
We became guardians of a teenager several years back. AT the time, he was enrolled in school based "treatment" program which we were told he might be in several hours a week. We agreed. Only after several YEARS did we find out, and only by sleuthing, that he had been attending this "treatment" program EVERY DAY for two years. Only after some heated moments were we even able to pull him out of this school-based " treatment" program, which the providers were charging upwards of $200 an HOUR. Only after he was out of this program did his grades start to climb, his behavior improve