Harry wrote; The human sex drive is a powerful thing that even very disciplined, religious people can fail to restrain on occasion.
We are humans not wild animals or even domesticated ones. Self control, morals and and a little self respect can go along way. We have attached no social stigma to anything that most people used to think was immoral. Abortion, premarital sex, out of wedlock birth, homosexuality, etc.... We never talk about the act or what is actually taking place only how we feel. It is pathetic.