I totally agree with you! I believe our male population, starting in pre-school and going all the way through high school have now been "dumbed down" with regards to their role in society. Too many are just too soft. Don't get me wrong. They need to learn respect for women and for each other and not to be a bully, but to tell a male football player to not hit the girl on the team "too hard" to avoid hurting her is just wrong. If you put yourself in a position to be a teamplayer, then play with the big boys "legitimately" or get off the damned porch....in sports or otherwise!