There's a tremendous difference between the Pretender's message, spoke & unspoken, and the
way millions of us were raised. The big message I received from parents and teachers was always:
You can do anything as long as you work hard and never give up. The only failures are those who give up.
The Pretender's message to the young: If you're a failure, it's not your fault. Leave it all to the government to make it right.