What I am saying, and you folks really do like to pick at gnats and miss the bigger picture, is that maybe instead of throwing in the towel on this battle and exponentially increasing our national heartache, that we change the tactics. Let's get rid of the "free to be you and me" generation and go back to extolling responsibility as a virtue. I am so tired of hearing "you have to love yourself first". Drug addicts put themselves first. Do you think that when drugs rule their lives that they really love themselves at that point? Let's teach people that how their lives intersect with other DOES matter. That it's not all about them. Then maybe we'll have much less of a drug and alcohol problem in this country.