My wife was impregnated as a 16 year old virgin by a rapist. She had an abortion. The abortion left her infertile. She always regretted the abortion. She weeps for the child on Mother's Day. She went through a period of depression and drug abuse before understanding both evil and grace exist in the world. The memory of child she aborted is still with her and the memory of the crime did not disappear with an abortion. Today she would choose grace for the child and I would choose castration, female hormonal therapy, and prison for the rapist.