And, it is very difficult to resist the siren song of "he/she/they owe you something. The reason you are here is not your fault, it's THEIRS. This is easy to swallow for most, and only the most unwavering belief in individuality and responsibility can resist it.
The black community in the fifties and sixties was better than the supposed white/privileged community today in almost every measure. I hope they get it back.