last time I checked, the 'Mommy' of said adopted child decided to have no part in the child's life, hence offering up the child for adoption.
There is indeed much 'hate' in the world, but it's not coming from those who wish to give an unwanted child a safe, secure, and loving home.
You can spout your delusional nonsense all you wish, for I care not. Time and demographics are on the side of "progressives" with regards to gay-rights. Your lot will soon be the segregationists, a sad book-mark in the history of america.