DMC: No, that’s not the same thing. The person struggling with temptation already has the desire. If they had chosen to have the desire, there would be no struggle or even temptation. For example, I am not tempted to eat foods I do not like and I have never chosen to like or dislike a particular food. In that same vein, I cannot conceive how I could ever find another man sexually attractive. It is impossible. Hence, there is no temptation.