I've been happily married for 22 years. My beautiful wife gives me sex pretty much anytime I want it. And often she initiates it. 22 years! And it doesn't look like this will be stopping anytime soon. When one of us dies the other will be left a widow or widower. She puts up with my imperfections, which are many. But I must say that our marriage is successful because we're both Christians. Cheat on my wife? Unthinkable. Even be tempted to go after someone else? Ain't gonna happen. "Delight thyself also in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart." Ps 37:4
Don't be too hard on Doug Giles. I get the BIG picture that he's trying to communicate.