The outcomes of being raised without a loving father are predictable. Blaming God for the consequences is equally predictable. The Bible never promised us a friction-free life. Only when we explore the constructs of Truth can we come to peace with Who extends the offer of forgiveness. It's a battle I fought for 20 years. When I finally explored the nature of man, in earnest, I found man to be a despicable and retched aggregation whose salvation HAD to come from a divine source.
That's when my life changed for the better and I was able to raise two children to know they had a loving father. Here, and in heaven.