Still waiting for the proof for the premise that people are "born gay" from those that make that claim. Where is the gene?
If it is not genenetic then people cannot be "born gay" it is then developmental, a learned behavior or reaction to external events (like sexual abuse), or a chosen lifestyle. If this is the case then the mind can be retrained away from homosexuality (not claiming that it should be just stating a fact). This then is a choice of lifestyle, even if that lifestyle was not initially conciously chosen, as the person chooses to remain in that lifestyle.